Does God have a plan? (from Lisa)

I got news today that David's sentencing date is December 9. I am not looking forward to this date. I try to be strong. I try to be supportive. I am doing the best that I can. But, I am dreading this date. It has been 9 weeks since my husband was taken into custody. It has been a very long 9 weeks. I am so fortunate that I have my family, support group, church, and God. I know God has a plan. I often wonder what that plan is. I cannot believe this is my life. I am married to a sex addict who is in prison. I never would have thought that this would be my life. It's interesting how I look at things differently now. Every week that I go visit with David, I hear stories about the guys in there with him. The stories are sad. Most are young guys who don't have a high school diploma. They have no family or hope. We sent David a GED study guide. He had asked for us to send one, so he could help one of the guys in there. In order for David to be able to purchase items he needs like haircuts, shampoo, soap, etc...., someone from the outside has to send him money. If you do not have family or friends who are willing to send money, you don't get them. I should say what you get is the very bare minimum. I send David some books every week to help him pass the time. He writes alot of letters, reads books and the bible, and prays. I cannot help but to think that David has been sent there for a purpose. He has so much to offer. Why would he let it come to this? It's sad that he didn't ask for help. If he had, he might not be where he is right now. Of course then he wouldn't be helping all of the people he is helping. So, maybe God does have a plan.