Bridging the Gap (from David)

David sent me this blog post. It is dated October 22, 2009.

David writes:

During our 1 hour break each day we can go around to the other cells and talk to the guys through the door. It is a solid steel door with a window about three feet long and about 8 inches wide. You can't really hear through it that well, sound doesn't easily travel through steel and concrete. We can see each other, but can't really connect. It is very unsatisfying. This is much like what my relationships were like before recovery. Whether it was with Lisa, a co-worker or friend, I always felt like there was something between us, keeping us from connecting. I could see them, but I didn't really hear them clearly or get close to them emotionally, spiritually, or even physically. There was too much shame, resentment, and guilt.

In recovery, as I've been able to replace the shame with honesty, love, and acceptance, I'm able to get past the barriers and connect with people. The door has been opened and I'm walking through. Nice to meet you!!

God bless,
David